Have you tried flirting but repeatedly failed? Well here’s a tenfold of advice that should definitely boost your efforts in achieving your goals.

1.      First things first! The most important factor in flirting is self-confidence! Have you ever came across a person possessing a strange aura that attracts all eyes and makes him/her stand out in the crowd? Well that “aura” is certainly some high self-confidence. Think of it this way: Why should other people give you any attention if you don’t appreciate yourself? When your self-confidence is in low levels other people can understand it. Love yourself, comprehend your positive points and learn to cover your negatives.
2.       Don’t forget to smile! Smile, it’s not like they’ll charge you for it. A smile emits a warm and positive feeling to the people around you, making them to return that smile and feelings back to you. Therefore, put your best smile on and get out there!!!
3.      Get ready to… play! Flirting is a game. Don’t hesitate to joke, use a good line, maybe from a friend of yours, and why not teasing or using various “tricks” misleading the person you are interested in. It’s like a chess play, a game of action and reaction, using strategy and initiative! So, what is your next move General?
4.       Make a compliment! Say how beautiful eyes he/she has, how beautifully lips, how beautiful clothes he/she wears and be sure you will get a positive reaction. Maybe all these sound a bit cliché for a man to tell a woman and kind of absurd for a woman to say. Yet everybody likes to be liked and even more when we get to hear that. But keep in mind never to overdo it, since even with good intentions you might get the opposite results.
5.      Be careful of your body language. Is your body language positive giving out the picture of a cheerful person? What do I mean by this? Look in at the other individual’s eyes, thus inspiring trust. Touch him/her on the hand or back when you speak to him/her, showing familiarity. Turning your body to his/her part when you sit next to him/her, showing that you him/her your full attention
6.      Start a discussion. You don’t know what to say? Ask open type questions! What are these questions? They are the questions that don’t have one-word answers and give room for further discussion. Ran out of subjects to discuss? Ask for work, where he/she was born and grew up, for his/her family or friends, for a film that you saw recently. This way you will soon be involved in a regular discussion.
7.      Speak for you. Be opened in the other individual (without you entering in very personal details) and speak for your interests, your work, your hobbies and in general for anything it would make the other individual form a good picture for you.
Attention: Do not boast endlessly as you will make him/her bored and think that you are just full of yourself!
8.      Avoid a negative body language. That includes: hunching, crossing arms on your chest, looking elsewhere or at other people. Also avoid any small habit of yours that might annoy the other individual e.g. if you smoke and he/she doesn’t don’t light a cigarette.
9.      Leave a good impression. Even if the person you are flirting turns out not being your type or vice versa, maybe his/her friends are. Always end your conversation in a polite way.
10.       Give your telephone. Don’t hesitate to exchange telephone numbers or ask to meet again. Of course that is if the person you are flirting turned out to be one you like.

Remember flirting is a game. You might read the instructions, but you will never master it if you don’t play. Sometimes you might win and others lose. Learn from your defeats as well your wins. Never get disappointed but always try again.

Good luck!